Talent, Resilence & Patience

There are three things you need for success in life, whether you are talking about writing (as I do) or anything else.

(By the way, I’m about to invent a new form of poem, so stay alert till the end.)

Despite the title, talent isn’t one of them. Research has shown that if you divide a group of children into two lots and praise one for their talent and the other for their hard work the results of one group will gradually decline and the other will increase.

The problem with praising someone for their talent is that they begin to believe that their talent will run out, where the other group starts to believe that the harder they work, the better they will become. This seems to be borne out by the actual results.

It is all laid out in a book called Bounce by Matthew Syed. Reading the review, as I did whilst looking for a link, it looks like there’s a lot more in there too – I really should read it again.

Talent can, to be honest, be replaced by practice and work rate. As long as you have a basic grasp of what makes a good bit of work in your field, you can work on improving the quality of your work. If you write a lot and submit enough pieces of work, success will follow. Once you have some success, more will follow. It’s like Roger Bannister and the four minute mile – once he broke the four minute barrier others followed. Barriers are mainly psychological, and once broken can be broken again and again.

Resilience, I have covered several times. Rejection is merely Β the opinion of an editor at a certain point in time, and does not constitute a damning judgement on you or your work. If several editors share the same view it still isn’t that bad, just take it as a hint that you need to alter a few things.

As an aside – write haibun. I have always felt fortunate that a number of editors have taken the time to give me pointers about my haibun, which isn’t something that happens in a lot of fields. It seems to be a field where we are blessed with a group of fine editors. When I was a more traditional poet I rarely met with helpful comments – it was a case of yes or no, mostly no, and no clue as to what needed altering.

Stone on the Floor

I thought I’d put the poetic rocks half way down as it isn’t really a poetry post.

Finally, patience. No editor of a small poetry publication is in it hoping for fame and fortune. They are often overworked, under appreciated and blamed for the varied failings of authors. Some people even write sarcastic haibun about them. These people should be ashamed of themselves.

If you are a guest editor, as many are, the under-appreciation must be even greater.

However, it doesn’t stop me getting twitchy when they take a long time over their answer. I’m waiting for an answer from a magazine that says it may take 6-8 weeks to answer during busy periods. IT’s had the submission for 54 days now, which is just two days short of eight weeks, and I’m becoming twitchy. Another, with a target of two weeks, has had my submission for sixteen days. Two weeks is an excellent response time, so I’m not complaining, but I’d love an answer.

You just have to sit back and wait. It’s difficult not to be impatient, but just think, if it was you, would you appreciate impatience. I think not.I keep telling myself we are lucky to have people to do these jobs for us. If you left me in charge of a magazine it would soon degenerate into confusion and Limericks.

There was an old poet called Quercus,
whose efforts, often, would irk us.
He loved to declaim,
and would often exclaim
that he’d much rather work in a circus.

And that is my new form of poetry. You have prose and haiku, which are haibun, and prose and tanka, which are called tanka prose. Well this – prose followed by a Limerick, is a Limmerbun. Β I add the double m to make sure it is pronounced correctly. Unlike the other two, a Limmerbun can be utter nonsense.

My Orange Parker Pen

I’m still hoping for some freebies from Parker. They are obviously not reading this blog.

Edited next day to tidy up a typo, remove a repetition and tinker with the Limerick.

22 thoughts on “Talent, Resilence & Patience

  1. tootlepedal

    Having neither talent nor persistence, I’ll have to take your word for what works best. I can talk a lot though so I am hoping to become prime minister as that seems to be the current qualification skill.

    1. quercuscommunity Post author

      I fear you are completely unsuited to the job as, unlike the current occupant you are not a hypocrite, philanderer or liar. The only points you seem to share are loquacity and a connection to cycling. This, I fear, is not enough to lead the country ever deeper into the mire.

      1. quercuscommunity Post author

        Sorry that I had to be the one to break the news. However, as a non-politician you can devote your time to worthwhile things like cycling, grumbling and grandfathering.

      1. Lavinia Ross

        We were lucky, and did not have to evacuate. The evacuation level 1 for our area was finally lifted, and we have had rain today. Tomorrow we should get more. It has been one hell of a couple of weeks.

      2. Lavinia Ross

        We opened the windows yesterday, first time in over a week. This morning, more smoke rolling in, so we have closed everything up again. It will take a while for the environment to heal and cleanse itself. Fires are still raging in other areas.

      3. quercuscommunity Post author

        Sorry to hear that, but at least things seem to be going in a positive direction. Although I know I should feel sorry for the other people who are suffering, I’m mainly glad that you are all OK. Well, that the cats are OK, as fur isn’t very practical when the air is full of sparks.

    1. quercuscommunity Post author

      Thank you. I’m not quite sure what I came up with that was memorable, but thank you all the same. I notice I was blessed twice in three lines and now have a slightly better last line for the Limerick, which goes to show how much I need an editor. πŸ™‚

  2. arlingwoman

    I used to do multiple submissions all the time. If someone has something for 6 months, they deserve to be told someone else accepted it. There just isn’t an excuse, especially for poetry. Novels, I can see, but yeesh.

    1. quercuscommunity Post author

      There are several poetry magazines that claim to take six months. I’ve never bothered with them. A friend of mine wrote an article on banknotes during lockdown – it will probably be published in the middle of next year because the magazine has had so many lockdown submissions. πŸ™‚


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