Has the year really passed so quickly? There are now only 336 days left until Christmas. The cynic in me is tempted to suggest that it will only be a couple of weeks before we start seeing the first Christmas displays in the shops. However, first we have Valentine’s Day (14th February). Then we have Mother’s Day (27th March) and Easter (17th April). Then there are all those summer holidays that people have been looking forward to, because modern people can’t function without their holidays. When I started work we used to get by on two weeks a year, and knew people who had been at work when there was no such thing as annual holiday. The whole country is getting soft. You can’t imagine the Spartans taking two weeks off in summer. Anyway, enough about the good old days. We probably won’t start Christmas until September.
American readers may have noticed that we have Mother’s Day on a different day. That’s because ours is linked to Mothering Sunday, which is a church festival and it takes its date from Easter, which is a notably moveable feast. Yours is linked to a woman called Anna Jarvis, who wanted to honour the memory of her mother.
I must apologise to Americans here, because I had always assumed that your Mother’s Day was just another commercial orgy driven by greetings card manufacturers. Seems I’m wrong – not only was it not started for that reason, but it inspired an English woman – Adelaide Smith – to reinvigorate the festival in the UK. She lived and worked in Nottingham and is buried nearby, but until today I knew nothing about her.
However, the greetings card manufacturers did take over, and Anna Jarvis actually tried to put a stop to Mother’s Day. To be fair to the card manufacturers, when she needed care at the end of her life, they paid for it, but it just goes to show how commercial interests take things over.
That’s probably a good place to stop. Otherwise I might get onto the subject of Father’s Day, a completely unnecessary blot on the calendar, and an idea, I suspect, that is supported behind the scenes by an international cartel of sock manufacturers.
Never fear. I’m sure the pc police will take care of Mother’s Day soon
I just looked “gender” up in the dictionary – “either of the two sexes”. They are in for a shock when they bring that one up to date.
Don’t get me started…
As Mrs T has often pointed out, every day seems to be father’s day so it is invidious to pick just one out.
No, just two or three days a year. I can tell from the sock deliveries . . .
Thanks for the links and history lesson, Quercus. Many holidays get commercialized, it seems. Money has a hand in most aspects of modern day society.
A certain amount of money is understandable, but things are getting out of hand. I’ve been giving Julia the same Christmas card for 33 years now, a tradition initiated by my father who gave my mother the same birthday card for over 40 years. \Julia says we were both extremely lucky in our choices of wife. 🙂
Julia is right. 🙂
Rick and I ceased giving cards some years ago. Saves money. One of us makes a special dinner instead.
That is how we do it too. 🙂
I was wondering whether Father’s Day would get a mention. My bulging sock collection comes from Christmas.
Christmas and Father’s Day in my case.
It would be a bit upsetting for dad’s if there were only a Mother’s Day, though, wouldn’t it?
Still, I don’t feel the need for these public celebrations. On the other hand, holidays are so that people can rest and work more effectively. We weren’t really made to work as such – that’s pretty much a ‘modern’ construct.
Given the choice between going to the shop or going to hunt a mammoth, sign me up for the modern construct. 🙂
Well, there is that!